wart wants lace, thrill, and frill have visual stimulation, and depends on fantasy. Like going to McD refuses to leave vehicle, so lover can step into my car. he feels women who control cock plays to his fantasy. ur hand on cock essentially ur jacking him off, suck his dick while u manipulate what u want out of him. If ur jacking him off and working for a promise makes a prostitute. If he's eating, fingering, or fucking ur still giving him what he wants either way. ur doing all the work and for a limited time. he will do anything when cum dum and stupid which is good for a minute, but what happens when u stop getting what u want? After he experienced orgasm dick's shot for night depending on drug he's taken. don't call urself dominant if playing to his needs.