I cheated on my husband before we married. I told randy allen hartman about indiscretion when he ported into hawaii please keep in mind this was march of 2003. I didn't wait, I told him str-8 off the bat when he got off boat.

I think truth is fair..yes, truth sux, but better than lying. In giving person a fair choice and decision.

Anyways we married 4-15-2005. Day titanic sunk odd historical fact. We forgot rings..he never technically put a ring on…When choosing my ring, he didn't put on ring my finger.

Over years..I should have woke to fact asshole I married never spent a day loving me.

Waking beside listening talk to someone else about. How he doesn't want me, he wants her…or him telling me.. “have I ever shown you, I love you?” Granted many years later. He wasted time building his account by banking on myself and daughter.